{"id":346,"date":"2026-05-05T21:20:57","date_gmt":"2026-05-05T21:20:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/silviaescobar.com\/?p=346"},"modified":"2026-05-05T21:21:04","modified_gmt":"2026-05-05T21:21:04","slug":"on-being-a-good-friend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/silviaescobar.com\/es\/on-being-a-good-friend\/","title":{"rendered":"Acerca de ser buenos amigos"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"\">Arturo y yo tratamos de ir al gimnasio dos o tres veces a la semana. No se porque, pero cada vez que entro al vestuario, me topo con las mismas dos mujeres que est\u00e1n platicando. Lo interesante es que solo una de ellas est\u00e1 hablando todo el rato que est\u00e1n all\u00ed. La otra solo responde como quien est\u00e1 confirmando que sigue escuchando. Esto me lleva a pensar la importancia de una habilidad muy importante que debemos practicar todos. El arte de escuchar y no solo hablar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Esta habilidad no solo es importante para adultos, sino tambi\u00e9n es importante ense\u00f1arle a nuestros hijos. La hora de la cena es un tiempo excelente para ense\u00f1ar esta habilidad. Damos oportunidad a que todos compartan c\u00f3mo les fue en el d\u00eda, hacemos preguntas, mostramos inter\u00e9s, y seguimos a la siguiente persona. Corregimos suavemente si alguien interrumpe y ense\u00f1amos con nuestro ejemplo la necesidad de respetar a la persona que est\u00e1 hablando sin importar su edad. Entre m\u00e1s lo practicamos, m\u00e1s natural se nos har\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">La amistad requiere una conversaci\u00f3n mutua. Compartimos y dejamos que la otra persona comparta tambi\u00e9n lo haga. Imag\u00ednese el impacto que esta habilidad puede tener en cada relaci\u00f3n. Con amistades, en el matrimonio, con los hijos, con los compa\u00f1eros de trabajo, etc. Uno de los regalos m\u00e1s grandes que nos podemos dar los unos a los otros es no solo hablar, sino tomar el tiempo para realmente escuchar.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Arturo and I try to get to the gym two or three times a week. There is something about the time that we get to the locker rooms after our workout that I often end up there at the same time as two other ladies who are talking. 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